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First Reading · Sirach 6:5-17

5A sweet word multiplieth friends, and appeaseth enemies, and a gracious tongue in a good man aboundeth.6Be in peace with many, but let one of a thousand be thy counsellor.7If thou wouldst get a friend, try him before thou takest him, and do not credit him easily.8For there is a friend for his own occasion, and he will not abide in the day of thy trouble.9And there is a friend that turneth to enmity; and there is a friend that will disclose hatred and strife and reproaches.10And there is a friend a companion at the table, and he will not abide in the day of distress.11A friend if he continue steadfast, shall be to thee as thyself, and shall act with confidence among them of thy household.12If he humble himself before thee, and hide himself from thy face, thou shalt have unanimous friendship for good.13Separate thyself from thy enemies, and take heed of thy friends.14A faithful friend is a strong defence: and he that hath found him, hath found a treasure.15Nothing can be compared to a faithful friend, and no weight of gold and silver is able to countervail the goodness of his fidelity.16A faithful friend is the medicine of life and immortality: and they that fear the Lord, shall find him.17He that feareth God, shall likewise have good friendship: because according to him shall his friend be.

commentary

Sirach's counsel on friendship rests on a single verb in v. 7, which the Douay renders "If thou wouldst get a friend, try him before thou takest him." Haydock renders it literally "dost possess a friend, possess him in trial," as the Greek also has it, while Calmet notes that the Hebrew term kanah also means "to acquire," so the trial belongs before the choice: "It is too late to try him after he has been received." The passage then lays out a gallery of false friends, each with a recognisable face: the friend "for his own occasion" (v. 8), the friend "that turneth to enmity" (v. 9), and the "companion at the table" who will not abide "in the day of distress" (v. 10). Against these stands the faithful friend, "a strong defence" and "a treasure" (v. 14), and finally "the medicine of life and immortality" (v. 16), where Calmet observes that and immortality is not in the Greek.

The commentators in Haydock bring the classical moralists to the table beside Sirach. On "one of a thousand" as counsellor (v. 6), Calmet allows that few can keep a secret, yet holds with Paul that we must have peace with all if we can; Aristotle commends Hesiod's maxim, neither too many intimate friends nor none at all. Plutarch and Solon second the trial of v. 7: choose slowly, and do not cast off with disgrace the friends you have. The friend who will "disclose hatred and strife and reproaches" (v. 9) Calmet glosses as the one who discloses all your imperfections, and Pliny supplies the reason it stings so: "the closest alliances, being broken, produce the most bitter enmities." Cicero's definition of friendship, "a kind and perfect agreement in all divine and human affairs," is quoted through Augustine, and the note adds that "Religion must be the foundation." Calmet adds a caution: Cicero says friendship can subsist only among the virtuous, yet the virtuous, judging others by themselves, are easily deceived, and ought therefore to look to God. Hence v. 16: "they that fear the Lord, shall find him."

The passage rebukes two modern errors at once: friendship measured by number, and friendship taken on trust without testing. It also forbids the cynic's response, since Bias's maxim to "love as if they were to hate" applies, says Haydock, only to friends of the false kind; "entire confidence becomes those who are friends indeed." The last verse gives friendship its direction: "according to him shall his friend be" (v. 17). Haydock reads it as the God-fearing man instilling piety into his friend if he lacks it, and quotes the proverb amicitia similes invenit aut facit: friendship finds equals or makes them.

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First Reading Sirach 6:5-17

Haydock Catholic Bible Commentary · Public Domain
6:5

Appeaseth. Greek, "and an eloquent tongue multiplies good words." (Haydock) --- The affable gain our affections. Gideon pacified the incensed Ephraimites by a mild answer, Judges viii. (Worthington)

6:6

Counsellor. Only few are capable of this office, (Haydock) or of keeping a secret. Yet we must have peace, if possible, with all, Romans xii. 18. (Calmet) --- The Scythians condemned many friends, no less than many wives, (Luc. Tox.) and Aristotle (Eth. ix. 10.) commends this maxim of Hesiod: Greek: mete poluxeinos met' azeinos; "neither to have too many guests, or intimate friends, nor to be without any."

6:7

Get. Literally, "dost possess a friend, possess him in trial," (Haydock) as the Greek also has it. But the Hebrew term kanah, means likewise, "to acquire," and a friend ought to be chosen with judgment. It is too late to try him after he has been received. (Calmet) --- One must try much before a companion be chosen, that he may be afterwards preserved. (Plut.[Plutarch?]) --- "Possess not friends quickly, but those whom thou hast obtained, reject not with disgrace." (Solon; Laertius i., and ii. 8.)

6:8

Trouble. Such are interested friends; but true friendship is a kind and perfect agreement in all divine and human affairs." (Cicero) (St. Augustine, contra Acad. iii.) --- Religion must be the foundation.

6:9

Reproaches. Disclosing all your imperfections. (Calmet) --- "The closest alliances, being broken, produce the most bitter enmities." (Pliny, [Natural History?] xxxvii. 4.)

6:12

Humble. "Friends must have a respect for each other." (Cicero)

6:13

Friends. Such as have been just described. Of these the maxim of Bias may be true, that people should "love as if they were to hate," at some future period. (Laertius i.) --- Entire confidence becomes those who are friends indeed.

6:14

Defence. Jonathas and Chusai saved David.

6:16

And immortality, is not in Greek. (Calmet) --- But shews the meaning of life is this place; as a true friend will not cease to give good advice for eternity. (Haydock) --- But even in this world, nothing can be more advantageous. (Calmet) --- Amicus magis necessarius est quam ignis et aqua. (Cicero) (St. Ambrose, off iii.) --- Him. Cicero himself says, "friendship can subsist only among the virtuous." Yet these, judging others by themselves, are more easily imposed upon, and ought, therefore, to address themselves to God. (Calmet)

6:17

Be. He will instill into his friend sentiments of piety, if he have them not before. Amicitia similes invenit aut facit. "Pythagoras desires that in friendship one should be formed of many." (Cicero v. 11.) (Haydock)