Appeaseth. Greek, "and an eloquent tongue multiplies good words." (Haydock) --- The affable gain our affections. Gideon pacified the incensed Ephraimites by a mild answer, Judges viii. (Worthington)
Friday of the 7th week in Ordinary Time
First Reading — Sirach 6:5-17
5A sweet word multiplieth friends, and appeaseth enemies, and a gracious tongue in a good man aboundeth.6Be in peace with many, but let one of a thousand be thy counsellor.7If thou wouldst get a friend, try him before thou takest him, and do not credit him easily.8For there is a friend for his own occasion, and he will not abide in the day of thy trouble.9And there is a friend that turneth to enmity; and there is a friend that will disclose hatred and strife and reproaches.10And there is a friend a companion at the table, and he will not abide in the day of distress.11A friend if he continue steadfast, shall be to thee as thyself, and shall act with confidence among them of thy household.12If he humble himself before thee, and hide himself from thy face, thou shalt have unanimous friendship for good.13Separate thyself from thy enemies, and take heed of thy friends.14A faithful friend is a strong defence: and he that hath found him, hath found a treasure.15Nothing can be compared to a faithful friend, and no weight of gold and silver is able to countervail the goodness of his fidelity.16A faithful friend is the medicine of life and immortality: and they that fear the Lord, shall find him.17He that feareth God, shall likewise have good friendship: because according to him shall his friend be.
5A sweet word multiplies friends and mitigates enemies. And thankful words abound in a good man.6Allow many to be at peace with you, but allow one out of a thousand to be your counselor.7If you would obtain a friend, test him before you accept him, and do not trust him readily.8For there is a friend according to his own time, but he will not remain in the day of tribulation.9And there is a friend who can be turned to animosity. And there is a friend who will reveal hatred and ridicule and insults.10And there is a friend who is a companion at table, but he will not remain in a day of need.11A friend, if he remains steadfast, will be to you as you are to yourself, and he will act with faithfulness among those of your household.12If he humbles himself before you and hides himself from your face, you shall have a noble and harmonious friendship.13Distance yourself from your enemies, and pay attention to your friends.14A faithful friend is a strong shelter, and whoever has found one has found a treasure.15Nothing is comparable to a faithful friend, and no weight of silver or gold is worth more than the goodness of his fidelity.16A faithful friend is a medicine for life and immortality; and those who fear the Lord will find one.17He who fears God will have a similar good friendship, because his friend will be like him.
5Sweet language will multiply friends: and a fairspeaking tongue will increase kind greetings.6Be in peace with many: nevertheless have but one counsellor of a thousand.7If thou wouldest get a friend, prove him first and be not hasty to credit him.8For some man is a friend for his own occasion, and will not abide in the day of thy trouble.9And there is a friend, who being turned to enmity, and strife will discover thy reproach.10Again, some friend is a companion at the table, and will not continue in the day of thy affliction.11But in thy prosperity he will be as thyself, and will be bold over thy servants.12If thou be brought low, he will be against thee, and will hide himself from thy face.13Separate thyself from thine enemies, and take heed of thy friends.14A faithfull friend is a strong defence: and he that hath found such an one hath found a treasure.15Nothing doth countervail a faithful friend, and his excellency is invaluable.16A faithful friend is the medicine of life; and they that fear the Lord shall find him.17Whoso feareth the Lord shall direct his friendship aright: for as he is, so shall his neighbour be also.
5A sweet word multiplieth friends, and appeaseth enemies, and a gracious tongue in a good man aboundeth.6Be in peace with many, but let one of a thousand be thy counsellor.7If thou wouldst get a friend, try him before thou takest him, and do not credit him easily.8For there is a friend for his own occasion, and he will not abide in the day of thy trouble.9And there is a friend that turneth to enmity; and there is a friend that will disclose hatred and strife and reproaches.10And there is a friend a companion at the table, and he will not abide in the day of distress.11A friend if he continue steadfast, shall be to thee as thyself, and shall act with confidence among them of thy household.12If he humble himself before thee, and hide himself from thy face, thou shalt have unanimous friendship for good.13Separate thyself from thy enemies, and take heed of thy friends.14A faithful friend is a strong defence: and he that hath found him, hath found a treasure.15Nothing can be compared to a faithful friend, and no weight of gold and silver is able to countervail the goodness of his fidelity.16A faithful friend is the medicine of life and immortality: and they that fear the Lord, shall find him.17He that feareth God, shall likewise have good friendship: because according to him shall his friend be.
5A sweet word multiplies friends and mitigates enemies. And thankful words abound in a good man.6Allow many to be at peace with you, but allow one out of a thousand to be your counselor.7If you would obtain a friend, test him before you accept him, and do not trust him readily.8For there is a friend according to his own time, but he will not remain in the day of tribulation.9And there is a friend who can be turned to animosity. And there is a friend who will reveal hatred and ridicule and insults.10And there is a friend who is a companion at table, but he will not remain in a day of need.11A friend, if he remains steadfast, will be to you as you are to yourself, and he will act with faithfulness among those of your household.12If he humbles himself before you and hides himself from your face, you shall have a noble and harmonious friendship.13Distance yourself from your enemies, and pay attention to your friends.14A faithful friend is a strong shelter, and whoever has found one has found a treasure.15Nothing is comparable to a faithful friend, and no weight of silver or gold is worth more than the goodness of his fidelity.16A faithful friend is a medicine for life and immortality; and those who fear the Lord will find one.17He who fears God will have a similar good friendship, because his friend will be like him.
5Sweet language will multiply friends: and a fairspeaking tongue will increase kind greetings.6Be in peace with many: nevertheless have but one counsellor of a thousand.7If thou wouldest get a friend, prove him first and be not hasty to credit him.8For some man is a friend for his own occasion, and will not abide in the day of thy trouble.9And there is a friend, who being turned to enmity, and strife will discover thy reproach.10Again, some friend is a companion at the table, and will not continue in the day of thy affliction.11But in thy prosperity he will be as thyself, and will be bold over thy servants.12If thou be brought low, he will be against thee, and will hide himself from thy face.13Separate thyself from thine enemies, and take heed of thy friends.14A faithfull friend is a strong defence: and he that hath found such an one hath found a treasure.15Nothing doth countervail a faithful friend, and his excellency is invaluable.16A faithful friend is the medicine of life; and they that fear the Lord shall find him.17Whoso feareth the Lord shall direct his friendship aright: for as he is, so shall his neighbour be also.
Responsorial Psalm — Psalm 119:12, 16, 18, 27, 34, 35
12Blessed art thou, O Lord: teach me thy justifications.16I will think of thy justifications: I will not forget thy words.18Open thou my eyes: and I will consider the wondrous things of thy law.27Make me to understand the way of thy justifications: and I shall be exercised in thy wondrous works.34Give me understanding, and I will search thy law; and I will keep it with my whole heart.35Lead me into the path of thy commandments; for this same I have desired.
12Blessed are you, O Lord. Teach me your justifications.16I will meditate on your justifications. I will not forget your words.18Reveal to my eyes, and I will consider the wonders of your law.27Instruct me in the way of your justifications, and I will be trained in your wonders.34Give me understanding, and I will examine your law. And I will keep it with my whole heart.35Lead me according to the path of your commandments, for I have desired this.
12Blessed art thou, O Lord: teach me thy statutes.16I will delight myself in thy statutes: I will not forget thy word.18Open thou mine eyes, that I may behold wondrous things out of thy law.27Make me to understand the way of thy precepts: so shall I talk of thy wondrous works.34Give me understanding, and I shall keep thy law; yea, I shall observe it with my whole heart.35Make me to go in the path of thy commandments; for therein do I delight.
12Blessed art thou, O Lord: teach me thy justifications.16I will think of thy justifications: I will not forget thy words.18Open thou my eyes: and I will consider the wondrous things of thy law.27Make me to understand the way of thy justifications: and I shall be exercised in thy wondrous works.34Give me understanding, and I will search thy law; and I will keep it with my whole heart.35Lead me into the path of thy commandments; for this same I have desired.
12Blessed are you, O Lord. Teach me your justifications.16I will meditate on your justifications. I will not forget your words.18Reveal to my eyes, and I will consider the wonders of your law.27Instruct me in the way of your justifications, and I will be trained in your wonders.34Give me understanding, and I will examine your law. And I will keep it with my whole heart.35Lead me according to the path of your commandments, for I have desired this.
12Blessed art thou, O Lord: teach me thy statutes.16I will delight myself in thy statutes: I will not forget thy word.18Open thou mine eyes, that I may behold wondrous things out of thy law.27Make me to understand the way of thy precepts: so shall I talk of thy wondrous works.34Give me understanding, and I shall keep thy law; yea, I shall observe it with my whole heart.35Make me to go in the path of thy commandments; for therein do I delight.
Almost every verse in this selection is a request to be taught, and the requests climb. The psalmist blesses God and asks "teach me thy justifications" (v. 12); he asks for opened eyes to "consider the wondrous things of thy law" (v. 18), to "understand the way" (v. 27), for understanding so that he may "search thy law" (v. 34), and finally to be led into the path "for this same I have desired" (v. 35). Calmet pictures him at the feet of his divine Master, and Worthington notes that he asks to grow though he is already just. Augustine records a variant at v. 27: some copies have "instruct me," which he says follows the Greek more closely. Haydock's commentators read the "wondrous things" of v. 18 as God's ways of rewarding and punishing, which the psalmist asks to perceive because, Calmet says, the law is "too much above my comprehension."
Augustine draws the line at v. 12 between two ways of learning. "Teach me," he says, means teach me "as they learn who do them; not as they who merely remember them, that they may have somewhat to speak of." So he explains the pairing of blessing and instruction: God gave the law, and now must give "the blessing of Thy grace, that by doing right I may learn what Thou by teaching hast commanded." The "wondrous" commandments of v. 27 he takes as the higher ones, which seem impossible to human weakness to those who have not tried them. At v. 34, the search of the law ends where Christ said the law hangs: love of God with the whole heart and of neighbour as self, which is the promise "I will keep it with my whole heart." Augustine's decisive move comes at v. 35. Having promised, the psalmist cannot perform without the One who commands: "My desire is powerless, unless Thou Thyself makest me to go where I desire." Worthington's summary of the same verse states the balance from the other side: "Free-will concurs with grace."
These verses rule out treating scripture as a store of quotations, which Augustine names when he speaks of those who learn only "that they may have somewhat to speak of." They also rule out the opposite confidence that a strong enough desire will carry a person along the path by itself. Haydock gives the practical rule that holds the two together: "We must observe what we know, that we may receive greater lights." Augustine closes on the image of the path itself, narrow because "the way is narrow which leadeth unto life," and therefore run only "with a heart enlarged."
Gospel — Mark 10:1-12
1And rising up from thence, he cometh into the coast of Judea beyond the Jordan: and the multitude flocked to him again. And as he was accustomed, he taught them again.2And the Pharisees coming to him asked him, tempting him: Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife?3But he answering, saith to them: What did Moses command you?4Who said: Moses permitted to write a bill of divorce and to put her away.5To whom Jesus answering, said: Because of the hardness of your heart, he wrote you that precept.6But from the beginning of the creation, God made them male and female.7For this cause, a man shall leave his father and mother and shall cleave to his wife.8And they two shall be in one flesh. Therefore now they are not two, but one flesh.9What therefore God hath joined together, let no man put asunder.10And in the house again his disciples asked him concerning the same thing.11And he saith to them: Whosoever shall put away his wife and marry another committeth adultery against her.12And if the wife shall put away her husband and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
1And rising up, he went from there into the area of Judea beyond the Jordan. And again, the crowd came together before him. And just as he was accustomed to do, again he taught them.2And approaching, the Pharisees questioned him, testing him: “Is it lawful for a man to dismiss his wife?”3But in response, he said to them, “What did Moses instruct you?”4And they said, “Moses gave permission to write a bill of divorce and to dismiss her.”5But Jesus responded by saying: “It was due to the hardness of your heart that he wrote that precept for you.6But from the beginning of creation, God made them male and female.7Because of this, a man shall leave behind his father and mother, and he shall cling to his wife.8And these two shall be one in flesh. And so, they are now, not two, but one flesh.9Therefore, what God has joined together, let no man separate.”10And again, in the house, his disciples questioned him about the same thing.11And he said to them: “Whoever dismisses his wife, and marries another, commits adultery against her.12And if a wife dismisses her husband, and is married to another, she commits adultery.”
1And he arose from thence, and cometh into the coasts of Judea by the farther side of Jordan: and the people resort unto him again; and, as he was wont, he taught them again.2And the Pharisees came to him, and asked him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife? tempting him.3And he answered and said unto them, What did Moses command you?4And they said, Moses suffered to write a bill of divorcement, and to put her away.5And Jesus answered and said unto them, For the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept.6But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.7For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife;8And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.9What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.10And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. 11And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her.12And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
1And rising up from thence, he cometh into the coast of Judea beyond the Jordan: and the multitude flocked to him again. And as he was accustomed, he taught them again.2And the Pharisees coming to him asked him, tempting him: Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife?3But he answering, saith to them: What did Moses command you?4Who said: Moses permitted to write a bill of divorce and to put her away.5To whom Jesus answering, said: Because of the hardness of your heart, he wrote you that precept.6But from the beginning of the creation, God made them male and female.7For this cause, a man shall leave his father and mother and shall cleave to his wife.8And they two shall be in one flesh. Therefore now they are not two, but one flesh.9What therefore God hath joined together, let no man put asunder.10And in the house again his disciples asked him concerning the same thing.11And he saith to them: Whosoever shall put away his wife and marry another committeth adultery against her.12And if the wife shall put away her husband and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
1And rising up, he went from there into the area of Judea beyond the Jordan. And again, the crowd came together before him. And just as he was accustomed to do, again he taught them.2And approaching, the Pharisees questioned him, testing him: “Is it lawful for a man to dismiss his wife?”3But in response, he said to them, “What did Moses instruct you?”4And they said, “Moses gave permission to write a bill of divorce and to dismiss her.”5But Jesus responded by saying: “It was due to the hardness of your heart that he wrote that precept for you.6But from the beginning of creation, God made them male and female.7Because of this, a man shall leave behind his father and mother, and he shall cling to his wife.8And these two shall be one in flesh. And so, they are now, not two, but one flesh.9Therefore, what God has joined together, let no man separate.”10And again, in the house, his disciples questioned him about the same thing.11And he said to them: “Whoever dismisses his wife, and marries another, commits adultery against her.12And if a wife dismisses her husband, and is married to another, she commits adultery.”
1And he arose from thence, and cometh into the coasts of Judea by the farther side of Jordan: and the people resort unto him again; and, as he was wont, he taught them again.2And the Pharisees came to him, and asked him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife? tempting him.3And he answered and said unto them, What did Moses command you?4And they said, Moses suffered to write a bill of divorcement, and to put her away.5And Jesus answered and said unto them, For the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept.6But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.7For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife;8And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.9What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.10And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. 11And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her.12And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
The Pharisees ask what is "lawful" (v. 2), and Jesus answers with a question about what Moses "command[ed]" (v. 3); they reply with what Moses "permitted" (v. 4). The three verbs sort the debate before any ruling is given. The decisive words come from Genesis, and Bede and Chrysostom read them almost letter by letter. God made them "male and female" (v. 6), Bede notes, not male and females, "so that they might be bound by the tie of one wife"; a man shall cleave "to his wife" (v. 7), not wives. Chrysostom finds in "cleave" itself the impossibility of severing, and in "one flesh" (v. 8) two people "framed out of one root" joining into one body. Bede also marks the geography of v. 1: here Mark's narrative leaves Galilee for Judea, beginning beyond the Jordan, and Theophylact adds that he came to the edge of the province where his Passion awaited.
Theophylact calls the Pharisees' question one "which had on either side a precipice," since either answer could be set against Moses; Chrysostom says Jesus avoids the snare by making them state the law first. Augustine reconciles Mark's order with Matthew's, where the Pharisees raise Moses themselves, and finds no discrepancy in substance. His larger contribution is a reading of Deuteronomy's bill of divorce as an obstacle rather than a license. Since only scribes could write Hebrew characters, a man set on dismissing his wife had to go first to "wise interpreters of the law," who might talk him back into concord; the bill was written only where the hatred could not be bent, and that was the "hardness of heart" (v. 5). Chrysostom says the answer "saves Moses" and turns the accusation back on his hearers. Augustine draws a second consequence: the same witness of Christ condemns the Manichees, who denied that God made and joined male and female. Bede distinguishes when man separates, dismissing a first wife from desire of a second, from when God separates, when both agree to serve him as though they had none, and he holds that no cause allows remarriage during the life of the one put away.
The passage refuses the argument from permission, the assumption that what a law tolerates it approves. Pseudo-Chrysostom observes that the old law forbade plain adultery, while the Saviour forbids what "was neither plain, nor known to all, though it was contrary to nature." It also refuses to make the question purely private. Chrysostom extends the command outward: if those God has joined may not be parted, "much more is it wrong to separate from Christ, the Church, which God has joined to Him." The disciples, not satisfied, ask again "in the house" (v. 10), and the Gloss observes that repeating the Word "produces not weariness, but thirst and hunger." The answer they receive inside is no softer than the one given in public.
First Reading · Sirach 6:5-17
5A sweet word multiplieth friends, and appeaseth enemies, and a gracious tongue in a good man aboundeth.6Be in peace with many, but let one of a thousand be thy counsellor.7If thou wouldst get a friend, try him before thou takest him, and do not credit him easily.8For there is a friend for his own occasion, and he will not abide in the day of thy trouble.9And there is a friend that turneth to enmity; and there is a friend that will disclose hatred and strife and reproaches.10And there is a friend a companion at the table, and he will not abide in the day of distress.11A friend if he continue steadfast, shall be to thee as thyself, and shall act with confidence among them of thy household.12If he humble himself before thee, and hide himself from thy face, thou shalt have unanimous friendship for good.13Separate thyself from thy enemies, and take heed of thy friends.14A faithful friend is a strong defence: and he that hath found him, hath found a treasure.15Nothing can be compared to a faithful friend, and no weight of gold and silver is able to countervail the goodness of his fidelity.16A faithful friend is the medicine of life and immortality: and they that fear the Lord, shall find him.17He that feareth God, shall likewise have good friendship: because according to him shall his friend be.
5A sweet word multiplies friends and mitigates enemies. And thankful words abound in a good man.6Allow many to be at peace with you, but allow one out of a thousand to be your counselor.7If you would obtain a friend, test him before you accept him, and do not trust him readily.8For there is a friend according to his own time, but he will not remain in the day of tribulation.9And there is a friend who can be turned to animosity. And there is a friend who will reveal hatred and ridicule and insults.10And there is a friend who is a companion at table, but he will not remain in a day of need.11A friend, if he remains steadfast, will be to you as you are to yourself, and he will act with faithfulness among those of your household.12If he humbles himself before you and hides himself from your face, you shall have a noble and harmonious friendship.13Distance yourself from your enemies, and pay attention to your friends.14A faithful friend is a strong shelter, and whoever has found one has found a treasure.15Nothing is comparable to a faithful friend, and no weight of silver or gold is worth more than the goodness of his fidelity.16A faithful friend is a medicine for life and immortality; and those who fear the Lord will find one.17He who fears God will have a similar good friendship, because his friend will be like him.
5Sweet language will multiply friends: and a fairspeaking tongue will increase kind greetings.6Be in peace with many: nevertheless have but one counsellor of a thousand.7If thou wouldest get a friend, prove him first and be not hasty to credit him.8For some man is a friend for his own occasion, and will not abide in the day of thy trouble.9And there is a friend, who being turned to enmity, and strife will discover thy reproach.10Again, some friend is a companion at the table, and will not continue in the day of thy affliction.11But in thy prosperity he will be as thyself, and will be bold over thy servants.12If thou be brought low, he will be against thee, and will hide himself from thy face.13Separate thyself from thine enemies, and take heed of thy friends.14A faithfull friend is a strong defence: and he that hath found such an one hath found a treasure.15Nothing doth countervail a faithful friend, and his excellency is invaluable.16A faithful friend is the medicine of life; and they that fear the Lord shall find him.17Whoso feareth the Lord shall direct his friendship aright: for as he is, so shall his neighbour be also.
Sirach's counsel on friendship rests on a single verb in v. 7, which the Douay renders "If thou wouldst get a friend, try him before thou takest him." Haydock renders it literally "dost possess a friend, possess him in trial," as the Greek also has it, while Calmet notes that the Hebrew term kanah also means "to acquire," so the trial belongs before the choice: "It is too late to try him after he has been received." The passage then lays out a gallery of false friends, each with a recognisable face: the friend "for his own occasion" (v. 8), the friend "that turneth to enmity" (v. 9), and the "companion at the table" who will not abide "in the day of distress" (v. 10). Against these stands the faithful friend, "a strong defence" and "a treasure" (v. 14), and finally "the medicine of life and immortality" (v. 16), where Calmet observes that and immortality is not in the Greek.
The commentators in Haydock bring the classical moralists to the table beside Sirach. On "one of a thousand" as counsellor (v. 6), Calmet allows that few can keep a secret, yet holds with Paul that we must have peace with all if we can; Aristotle commends Hesiod's maxim, neither too many intimate friends nor none at all. Plutarch and Solon second the trial of v. 7: choose slowly, and do not cast off with disgrace the friends you have. The friend who will "disclose hatred and strife and reproaches" (v. 9) Calmet glosses as the one who discloses all your imperfections, and Pliny supplies the reason it stings so: "the closest alliances, being broken, produce the most bitter enmities." Cicero's definition of friendship, "a kind and perfect agreement in all divine and human affairs," is quoted through Augustine, and the note adds that "Religion must be the foundation." Calmet adds a caution: Cicero says friendship can subsist only among the virtuous, yet the virtuous, judging others by themselves, are easily deceived, and ought therefore to look to God. Hence v. 16: "they that fear the Lord, shall find him."
The passage rebukes two modern errors at once: friendship measured by number, and friendship taken on trust without testing. It also forbids the cynic's response, since Bias's maxim to "love as if they were to hate" applies, says Haydock, only to friends of the false kind; "entire confidence becomes those who are friends indeed." The last verse gives friendship its direction: "according to him shall his friend be" (v. 17). Haydock reads it as the God-fearing man instilling piety into his friend if he lacks it, and quotes the proverb amicitia similes invenit aut facit: friendship finds equals or makes them.
Responsorial Psalm · Psalm 119:12, 16, 18, 27, 34, 35
12Blessed art thou, O Lord: teach me thy justifications.16I will think of thy justifications: I will not forget thy words.18Open thou my eyes: and I will consider the wondrous things of thy law.27Make me to understand the way of thy justifications: and I shall be exercised in thy wondrous works.34Give me understanding, and I will search thy law; and I will keep it with my whole heart.35Lead me into the path of thy commandments; for this same I have desired.
12Blessed are you, O Lord. Teach me your justifications.16I will meditate on your justifications. I will not forget your words.18Reveal to my eyes, and I will consider the wonders of your law.27Instruct me in the way of your justifications, and I will be trained in your wonders.34Give me understanding, and I will examine your law. And I will keep it with my whole heart.35Lead me according to the path of your commandments, for I have desired this.
12Blessed art thou, O Lord: teach me thy statutes.16I will delight myself in thy statutes: I will not forget thy word.18Open thou mine eyes, that I may behold wondrous things out of thy law.27Make me to understand the way of thy precepts: so shall I talk of thy wondrous works.34Give me understanding, and I shall keep thy law; yea, I shall observe it with my whole heart.35Make me to go in the path of thy commandments; for therein do I delight.
Almost every verse in this selection is a request to be taught, and the requests climb. The psalmist blesses God and asks "teach me thy justifications" (v. 12); he asks for opened eyes to "consider the wondrous things of thy law" (v. 18), to "understand the way" (v. 27), for understanding so that he may "search thy law" (v. 34), and finally to be led into the path "for this same I have desired" (v. 35). Calmet pictures him at the feet of his divine Master, and Worthington notes that he asks to grow though he is already just. Augustine records a variant at v. 27: some copies have "instruct me," which he says follows the Greek more closely. Haydock's commentators read the "wondrous things" of v. 18 as God's ways of rewarding and punishing, which the psalmist asks to perceive because, Calmet says, the law is "too much above my comprehension."
Augustine draws the line at v. 12 between two ways of learning. "Teach me," he says, means teach me "as they learn who do them; not as they who merely remember them, that they may have somewhat to speak of." So he explains the pairing of blessing and instruction: God gave the law, and now must give "the blessing of Thy grace, that by doing right I may learn what Thou by teaching hast commanded." The "wondrous" commandments of v. 27 he takes as the higher ones, which seem impossible to human weakness to those who have not tried them. At v. 34, the search of the law ends where Christ said the law hangs: love of God with the whole heart and of neighbour as self, which is the promise "I will keep it with my whole heart." Augustine's decisive move comes at v. 35. Having promised, the psalmist cannot perform without the One who commands: "My desire is powerless, unless Thou Thyself makest me to go where I desire." Worthington's summary of the same verse states the balance from the other side: "Free-will concurs with grace."
These verses rule out treating scripture as a store of quotations, which Augustine names when he speaks of those who learn only "that they may have somewhat to speak of." They also rule out the opposite confidence that a strong enough desire will carry a person along the path by itself. Haydock gives the practical rule that holds the two together: "We must observe what we know, that we may receive greater lights." Augustine closes on the image of the path itself, narrow because "the way is narrow which leadeth unto life," and therefore run only "with a heart enlarged."
Gospel · Mark 10:1-12
1And rising up from thence, he cometh into the coast of Judea beyond the Jordan: and the multitude flocked to him again. And as he was accustomed, he taught them again.2And the Pharisees coming to him asked him, tempting him: Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife?3But he answering, saith to them: What did Moses command you?4Who said: Moses permitted to write a bill of divorce and to put her away.5To whom Jesus answering, said: Because of the hardness of your heart, he wrote you that precept.6But from the beginning of the creation, God made them male and female.7For this cause, a man shall leave his father and mother and shall cleave to his wife.8And they two shall be in one flesh. Therefore now they are not two, but one flesh.9What therefore God hath joined together, let no man put asunder.10And in the house again his disciples asked him concerning the same thing.11And he saith to them: Whosoever shall put away his wife and marry another committeth adultery against her.12And if the wife shall put away her husband and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
1And rising up, he went from there into the area of Judea beyond the Jordan. And again, the crowd came together before him. And just as he was accustomed to do, again he taught them.2And approaching, the Pharisees questioned him, testing him: “Is it lawful for a man to dismiss his wife?”3But in response, he said to them, “What did Moses instruct you?”4And they said, “Moses gave permission to write a bill of divorce and to dismiss her.”5But Jesus responded by saying: “It was due to the hardness of your heart that he wrote that precept for you.6But from the beginning of creation, God made them male and female.7Because of this, a man shall leave behind his father and mother, and he shall cling to his wife.8And these two shall be one in flesh. And so, they are now, not two, but one flesh.9Therefore, what God has joined together, let no man separate.”10And again, in the house, his disciples questioned him about the same thing.11And he said to them: “Whoever dismisses his wife, and marries another, commits adultery against her.12And if a wife dismisses her husband, and is married to another, she commits adultery.”
1And he arose from thence, and cometh into the coasts of Judea by the farther side of Jordan: and the people resort unto him again; and, as he was wont, he taught them again.2And the Pharisees came to him, and asked him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife? tempting him.3And he answered and said unto them, What did Moses command you?4And they said, Moses suffered to write a bill of divorcement, and to put her away.5And Jesus answered and said unto them, For the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept.6But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.7For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife;8And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.9What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.10And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. 11And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her.12And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
The Pharisees ask what is "lawful" (v. 2), and Jesus answers with a question about what Moses "command[ed]" (v. 3); they reply with what Moses "permitted" (v. 4). The three verbs sort the debate before any ruling is given. The decisive words come from Genesis, and Bede and Chrysostom read them almost letter by letter. God made them "male and female" (v. 6), Bede notes, not male and females, "so that they might be bound by the tie of one wife"; a man shall cleave "to his wife" (v. 7), not wives. Chrysostom finds in "cleave" itself the impossibility of severing, and in "one flesh" (v. 8) two people "framed out of one root" joining into one body. Bede also marks the geography of v. 1: here Mark's narrative leaves Galilee for Judea, beginning beyond the Jordan, and Theophylact adds that he came to the edge of the province where his Passion awaited.
Theophylact calls the Pharisees' question one "which had on either side a precipice," since either answer could be set against Moses; Chrysostom says Jesus avoids the snare by making them state the law first. Augustine reconciles Mark's order with Matthew's, where the Pharisees raise Moses themselves, and finds no discrepancy in substance. His larger contribution is a reading of Deuteronomy's bill of divorce as an obstacle rather than a license. Since only scribes could write Hebrew characters, a man set on dismissing his wife had to go first to "wise interpreters of the law," who might talk him back into concord; the bill was written only where the hatred could not be bent, and that was the "hardness of heart" (v. 5). Chrysostom says the answer "saves Moses" and turns the accusation back on his hearers. Augustine draws a second consequence: the same witness of Christ condemns the Manichees, who denied that God made and joined male and female. Bede distinguishes when man separates, dismissing a first wife from desire of a second, from when God separates, when both agree to serve him as though they had none, and he holds that no cause allows remarriage during the life of the one put away.
The passage refuses the argument from permission, the assumption that what a law tolerates it approves. Pseudo-Chrysostom observes that the old law forbade plain adultery, while the Saviour forbids what "was neither plain, nor known to all, though it was contrary to nature." It also refuses to make the question purely private. Chrysostom extends the command outward: if those God has joined may not be parted, "much more is it wrong to separate from Christ, the Church, which God has joined to Him." The disciples, not satisfied, ask again "in the house" (v. 10), and the Gloss observes that repeating the Word "produces not weariness, but thirst and hunger." The answer they receive inside is no softer than the one given in public.
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First Reading Sirach 6:5-17
Counsellor. Only few are capable of this office, (Haydock) or of keeping a secret. Yet we must have peace, if possible, with all, Romans xii. 18. (Calmet) --- The Scythians condemned many friends, no less than many wives, (Luc. Tox.) and Aristotle (Eth. ix. 10.) commends this maxim of Hesiod: Greek: mete poluxeinos met' azeinos; "neither to have too many guests, or intimate friends, nor to be without any."
Get. Literally, "dost possess a friend, possess him in trial," (Haydock) as the Greek also has it. But the Hebrew term kanah, means likewise, "to acquire," and a friend ought to be chosen with judgment. It is too late to try him after he has been received. (Calmet) --- One must try much before a companion be chosen, that he may be afterwards preserved. (Plut.[Plutarch?]) --- "Possess not friends quickly, but those whom thou hast obtained, reject not with disgrace." (Solon; Laertius i., and ii. 8.)
Trouble. Such are interested friends; but true friendship is a kind and perfect agreement in all divine and human affairs." (Cicero) (St. Augustine, contra Acad. iii.) --- Religion must be the foundation.
Reproaches. Disclosing all your imperfections. (Calmet) --- "The closest alliances, being broken, produce the most bitter enmities." (Pliny, [Natural History?] xxxvii. 4.)
Humble. "Friends must have a respect for each other." (Cicero)
Friends. Such as have been just described. Of these the maxim of Bias may be true, that people should "love as if they were to hate," at some future period. (Laertius i.) --- Entire confidence becomes those who are friends indeed.
Defence. Jonathas and Chusai saved David.
And immortality, is not in Greek. (Calmet) --- But shews the meaning of life is this place; as a true friend will not cease to give good advice for eternity. (Haydock) --- But even in this world, nothing can be more advantageous. (Calmet) --- Amicus magis necessarius est quam ignis et aqua. (Cicero) (St. Ambrose, off iii.) --- Him. Cicero himself says, "friendship can subsist only among the virtuous." Yet these, judging others by themselves, are more easily imposed upon, and ought, therefore, to address themselves to God. (Calmet)
Be. He will instill into his friend sentiments of piety, if he have them not before. Amicitia similes invenit aut facit. "Pythagoras desires that in friendship one should be formed of many." (Cicero v. 11.) (Haydock)
Responsorial Psalm Psalm 119:12, 16, 18, 27, 34, 35
(ver. 12). "Teach me," he saith, as they learn who do them; not as they who merely remember them, that they may have somewhat to speak of. Why then doth he say, "Teach me Thy righteousnesses," save because he wisheth to learn them by deeds, not by speaking or retaining them in his memory? Since then, as it is read in another Psalm, "He shall give blessing, who gave the law;" therefore, "Blessed art Thou, O Lord," he saith, "O teach me Thy righteousness." For because I have hidden Thy words in my heart, that I may not sin against Thee, Thou hast given a law; give also the blessing of Thy grace, that by doing right I may learn what Thou by teaching hast commanded....
12. "With my lips have I been telling of all the judgments of Thy mouth"
(ver. 16). "My meditation" shall be therein, that I may not forget them. Thus the blessed man in the first Psalm "shall meditate in the law" of the Lord "day and night." ...
Gimel.
15. He had said, "Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? Even by keeping Thy words." Behold he now more openly asketh aid that he may do this: "Reward," he saith, "Thy servant: let me live, and keep Thy word"
(ver. 18). What he addeth, "I am a lodger upon earth"
(ver. 27); or, as some copies have it, "instruct me;" which is expressed more closely from the Greek, "Make me to understand the way of Thy righteousnesses; so shall I be exercised in Thy wondrous things." These higher commandments, which he desireth to understand by edification, he calleth the wondrous things of God. There are then some righteousnesses of God so wondrous, that human weakness may be believed incapable of fulfilling them by those who have not tried. Whence the Psalmist, struggling and wearied with the difficulty of obeying them, saith, "My soul hath slumbered for very heaviness: O stablish Thou me with Thy word!"
(ver. 34). For when each man hath searched the law, and searched its deep things, in which its whole meaning doth consist; he ought indeed to love God with all his heart, with all his soul, with all his mind; and his neighbour as himself. "For on these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets." This he seemeth to have promised, when he said, "Yea, I shall keep it with my whole heart."
35. But since he hath no power to do even this, save he be aided by Him who commandeth him to do what He commandeth, "Make me," he addeth, "to go in the path of Thy commandments, for therein is my desire" (ver. 35). My desire is powerless, unless Thou Thyself makest me to go where I desire. And this is surely the very path, that is, the path of God's commandments, which he had already said that he had run, when his heart was enlarged by the Lord. And this he calleth a "path," because "the way is narrow which leadeth unto life;" and since it is narrow, we cannot run therein save with a heart enlarged....
36. He next saith, "Incline mine heart unto Thy testimonies, and not to covetousness"
Justifications. He considers himself as placed at the feet of his divine Master. (Calmet) --- Though just, he wished to increase in virtue, Apocalypse xxii. (Worthington)
Law. In rewarding, punishing, &c. This thou wilt enable me to perceive, (Worthington) as thy law is too much above my comprehension. (Calmet)
Heart. Enable me to keep and to understand thy law, ver. 1, 2. (Worthington) --- We must observe what we know, that we may receive greater lights. (Haydock)
Desired. Free-will concurs with grace. (Worthington)
10-16. We must carefully treasure up the word of God, declare it to others, meditate on it, and heartily delight in it; and then by His grace we shall act according to it.
GIMEL. ( Psa 119:17-24 ).
17-20. Life is desirable in order to serve God; that we may do so aright, we should seek to have our eyes opened to behold His truth, and earnestly desire fully to understand it.
25-27. Submitting ourselves in depression to God, He will revive us by His promises, and lead us to declare His mercy to others.
33-38. To encourage us in prayer for divine aid in adhering to His truth, we are permitted to believe that by His help we shall succeed.
the way of thy statutes-- that is, the way or manner of life prescribed by them. The help we hope to obtain by prayer is to be the basis on which our resolutions should rest.
12 Blessed art thou, O Lord : teach me thy statutes.
13 With my lips have I declared all the judgments of thy mouth. 14 I have rejoiced in the way of thy testimonies, as much as in all riches. 15 I will meditate in thy precepts, and have respect unto thy ways. 16 I will delight myself in thy statutes: I will not forget thy word.
Here, I. David looks back with comfort upon the respect he had paid to the word of God. He had the testimony of his conscience for him, 1. That he had edified others with what he had been taught out of the word of God ( v. 13 ): With my lips have I declared all the judgments of thy mouth. This he did, not only as a king in making orders, and giving judgment, according to the word of God, nor only as a prophet by his psalms, but in his common discourse. Thus he showed how full he was of the word of God, and what a holy delight he took in his acquaintance with it; for it is out of the abundance of the heart that the mouth speaks. Thus he did good with his knowledge; he did not hide God's word from others, but hid it for them; and, out of that good treasure in his heart, brought forth good things, as the householder out of his store things new and old. Those whose hearts are fed with the bread of life should with their lips feed many. He had prayed ( v. 12 ) that God would teach him; and here he pleads, "Lord, I have endeavoured to make a good use of the knowledge thou hast given me, therefore increase it;" for to him that has shall be given. 2. That he had entertained himself with it: " Lord, teach me thy statutes; for I desire no greater pleasure than to know and do them ( v. 14 ): I have rejoiced in the way of thy commandments, in a constant even course of obedience to thee; not only in the speculations and histories of thy word, but in the precepts of it, and in that path of serious godliness which they chalk out to me. I have rejoiced in this as much as in all riches, as much as ever any worldling rejoiced in the increase of his wealth. In the way of God's commandments I can truly say, Soul, take thy ease; " in true religion there is all riches, the unsearchable riches of Christ.
18 Open thou mine eyes, that I may behold wondrous things out of thy law.
26 I have declared my ways, and thou heardest me: teach me thy statutes. 27 Make me to understand the way of thy precepts: so shall I talk of thy wondrous works.
33 Teach me, O Lord , the way of thy statutes; and I shall keep it unto the end. 34 Give me understanding, and I shall keep thy law; yea, I shall observe it with my whole heart.
Here, I. David prays earnestly that God himself would be his teacher; he had prophets, and wise men, and priests, about him, and was himself well instructed in the law of God, yet he begs to be taught of God, as knowing that none teaches like him, Job xxxvi. 22 . Observe here, 1. What he desires to be taught, not the notions or language of God's statutes, but the way of them—"the way of applying them to myself and governing myself by them; teach me the way of my duty which thy statutes prescribe, and in every doubtful case let me know what thou wouldst have me to do, let me hear the word behind me, saying, This is the way, walk in it " Isa. xxx. 21 . 2. How he desires to be taught, in such a way as no man could teach him: Lord, give me understanding. As the God of nature, he has given us intellectual powers and faculties; but here we are taught to pray that, as the God of grace, he would give us understanding to use those powers and faculties about the great things which belong to our peace, which, through the corruption of nature, we are averse to: Give me understanding, an enlightened understanding; for it is as good to have no understanding at all as not to have it sanctified. Nor will the spirit of revelation in the word answer the end unless we have the spirit of wisdom in the heart. This is that which we are indebted to Christ for; for the Son of God has come and has given us understanding, 1 John v. 20 .
35 Make me to go in the path of thy commandments; for therein do I delight. 36 Incline my heart unto thy testimonies, and not to covetousness.
He had before prayed to God to enlighten his understanding, that he might know his duty, and not mistake concerning it; here he prays to God to bow his will, and quicken the active powers of his soul, that he might do his duty; for it is God that works in us both to will and to do, as well as to understand, what is good, Phil. ii. 13 . Both the good head and the good heart are from the good grace of God, and both are necessary to every good work. Observe here,
I. The grace he prays for. 1. That God would make him able to do his duty: " Make me to go; strengthen me for every good work." Since we are not sufficient of ourselves, our dependence must be upon the grace of God, for from him all our sufficiency is. God puts his Spirit within us, and so causes us to walk in his statutes ( Ezek. xxxvi. 27 ), and this is that which David here begs. 2. That God would make him willing to do it, and would, by his grace, subdue the aversion he naturally had to it: " Incline my heart to thy testimonies, to those things which thy testimonies prescribe; not only make me willing to do my duty, as that which I must do and therefore am concerned to make the best of, but make me desirous to do my duty as that which is agreeable to the new nature and really advantageous to me." Duty is then done with delight when the heart is inclined to it: it is God's grace that inclines us, and the more backward we find ourselves to it the more earnest we must be for that grace.
II. The sin he prays against, and that is covetousness: " Incline my heart to keep thy testimonies, and restrain and mortify the inclination there is in me to covetousness. " That is a sin which stands opposed to all God's testimonies; for the love of money is such a sin as is the root of much sin, of all sin. Those therefore that would have the love of God rooted in them must get the love of the world rooted out of them; for the friendship of the world is enmity with God. See in what way God deals with men, not by compulsion, but he draws with the cords of a man, working in them an inclination to that which is good and an aversion to that which is evil.
Gospel Mark 10:1-12
And He arose from thence, and cometh into the coasts of Judaea by the farther side of Jordan: and the people resort unto Him again; and, as He was wont, He taught them again.2. And the Pharisees came to Him, and asked Him, "Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife?," tempting Him.3. And He answered and said unto them, "What did Moses command you?"4. And they said, "Moses suffered to write a bill of divorcement, and to put her away."5. And Jesus answered and said unto them, "For the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept."6. But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.7. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife;8. And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.9. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder."10. And in the house, His disciples asked Him again of the same matter.11. And He saith unto them, "Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. 12. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery."
Up to this time, Mark hath related what Our Lord said and did in Galilee; here he begins to relate what He did, taught, or suffered in Judaea, and first indeed across the Jordan on the east; and this is what is said in these words: "And He arose from thence, and cometh into the coasts of Judaea, by the farther side of Jordan"; then also on this side Jordan, when He came to Jericho, Bethany, and Jerusalem. And though all the province of the Jews is generally called Judaea, to distinguish it from other nations, more especially, however, its southern portion was called Judaea, to distinguish it from Samaria, Galilee, Decapolis, and the other regions in the same province.
But He enters the region of Judaea, which the envy of the Jews had often caused Him to leave, because His Passion was to take place there. He did not, however, then go up to Jerusalem, but to the confines of Judaea, that He might do good to the multitudes, who were not evil; for Jerusalem was, from the malice of the Jews, the worker of all the wickedness.
"And the people resort unto Him again, and, as He was wont, He taught them again."
Mark the difference of temper in the multitude and in the Pharisees. The former meet together, in order to be taught, and that their sick may be healed, as Matthew relates [ Mat 19:2 ]; the latter come to Him, to try to deceive their Saviour by tempting Him.
"And the Pharisees came to Him, and asked Him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife? tempting Him."
They come to Him indeed, and do not quit Him, lest the multitudes should believe on Him; and by continually coming to Him, they thought to bring Him into difficulty, and to confuse Him by their questions. For they proposed to Him a question, which had on either side a precipice, so that whether He said that it was lawful for a man to put away his wife, or that it was not lawful, they might accuse Him, and contradict what He said, out of the doctrines of Moses. Christ, therefore, being Very Wisdom, in answering their question, avoids their snares.
the same sort of comment is to be found in Origin, in Matt. tom. 14, 17, IIii in Matt. 19, Ambr. in Luc. 8, 9. Auct. Op. Imperfecti in loc. Theophyl. in Matt. 19.): For being asked, whether it is lawful, he does not immediately reply, it is not lawful, lest they should raise an outcry, but He first wished them to answer Him as to the sentence of the law, that they by their answer might furnish Him with what it was right to say.
"And He answered and said unto them, What did Moses command you? And afterwards, "And they said, Moses suffered to write a bill of divorcement, and to put her away." They put forward indeed this that Moses had said either on account of the question of our Saviour, or wishing to excite against Him a multitude of men. For divorce was an indifferent thing among the Jews, and all practised it, as though it were permitted by the law.
It makes nothing, however, to the truth of the fact, whether, as Matthew says, they themselves addressed to the Lord the question concerning the bill of divorcement, allowed to them by Moses, on our Lord’s forbidding the separation, and confirming His sentence from the law, or whether it was in answer to a question of His, that they said this concerning the command of Moses, as Mark here says. For His wish was to give them no reason why Moses permitted it, before they themselves had mentioned the fact; since then the wish of the parties speaking, which is what the words ought to express, is in either way shewn, there is no discrepancy, though there be a difference in the way of relating it. It may also be meant that, as Mark expresses it, the question put to them by the Lord, What did Moses command?, was in answer to those who had previously asked His opinion concerning the putting away of a wife. And when they had replied that Moses permitted them to write a bill of divorcement, and to put her away, His answer was concerning that same law, given by Moses, how God instituted the marriage of a male, and a female, saying those things which Matthew relates [ Mat 19:4 ]; on hearing which they again rejoined what they had replied to Him when He first asked them, namely - Why then did Moses command?
Moses, however, was against a man’s dismissing his wife, for he interposed this delay, that a person whose mind was bent on separation, might be deterred by the writing of the bill, and desist; particularly, since, as is related, among the Hebrews, no one was allowed to write Hebrew characters but the scribes. The law therefore wished to send him, whom it ordered to give a bill of divorcement, before he dismissed his wife, to them, who ought to be wise interpreters of the law, and just opponents of quarrel. For a bill could only be written for him by men, who by their good advice might overrule him, since his circumstances and necessity had put him into their hands, and so by treating between him and his wife they might persuade them to love and concord.
But if a hatred so great had arisen that it could not be extinguished and corrected, then indeed a bill was to be written, that he might not lightly put away her who was the object of his hate, in such a way as to prevent his being recalled to the love, which he owed her by marriage, through the persuasion of the wise. For this reason it is added, "For the hardness of your heart, he wrote this precept"; for great was the hardness of heart which could not be melted or bent to the taking back and recalling the love of marriage, even by the interposition of a bill in a way which gave room for the just and wise to dissuade them.
, Cat. in Marc. Oxon: Or else, it is said, "For the hardness of your hearts," because it is possible for a soul purged from desires and from anger to bear the worst of women; but if those passions have a redoubled force over the mind, many evils will arise from hatred in marriage.
Thus then, He saves Moses, who had given the law, from their accusation, and turns the whole upon their head. But since what He had said was grievous to them, He at once brings back the discourse to the old law, saying, "But from the beginning of the creation, God made them male and female."
He says not male and females, which the sense would have required had it referred to the divorce of former wives, but "male" and "female", so that they might be bound by the tie of one wife.
If however he had wished one wife to be put away and another to be brought in, He would have created several women. Nor did God only join one woman to one man, but He also bade a man quit his parents and cleave to his wife.
"And he said, (that is, God, said by Adam) For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife. From the very mode of speech, shewing the impossibility of severing marriage, because He said, "He shall cleave."
And in like manner, because He says, he shall cleave to his wife, not wives. It goes on: "And they twain shall be one flesh."
Being framed out of one root, they will join into one body. It goes on: "So then they are no more twain, but one flesh."
The reward then of marriage is of two to become one flesh. Virginity being joined to the Spirit, becomes of one spirit.
After this, bringing forward an awful argument, He said not, do not divide, but He concluded, "What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder."
Behold the Jews are convinced out of the books of Moses, that a wife is not to be put away, while they fancied that in putting her away, they were doing the will of Moses. In like manner from this place, from the witness of Christ Himself, we know this, that God made and joined male and female, for denying which the Manichees are condemned, resisting now not the books of Moses, but the Gospel of Christ.
What therefore God hath conjoined by making one flesh of a man and a woman, that man cannot separate, but God alone. Man separates, when we dismiss the first wife because we desire a second; but it is God who separates, when by common consent [ 1Co 7:7 ], for the sake of serving God, we so have wives as though we had none [ 1Co 7:7 ].
But if two persons, whom God has joined together, are not to be separated; much more is it wrong to separate from Christ, the Church, which God has joined to Him.
But the disciples were offended, as not being fully satisfied with what had been said; for this reason they again question Him. Wherefore there follows: "And in the house, His disciples asked Him again of the same matter."
This second question is said to be asked "again" by the Apostles, because it is on the subject of which the Pharisees had asked Him, that is, concerning the state of marriage; and this is said by Mark in his own person.
For a repetition of a saying of the Word, produces not weariness, but thirst and hunger. Wherefore it is said, "They that eat me shall yet be hungry, and they that drink me shall yet be thirsty"; for the tasting of the honied words of wisdom yields all manner of savour to them who love her. Wherefore the Lord instructs His disciples over again; for it goes on, "And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife and marry another, committeth adultery upon her."
, Vict. Ant., e Cat. in Marc.: The Lord calls by the name of adultery cohabitation with her who is not a man’s wife; she is not, however, a wife, whom a man has taken to him, after quitting the first; and for this reason he commits adultery upon her, that is, upon the second, whom he brings in. And the same thing is true in the case of the woman; wherefore it goes on, "And if a woman shall put away her husband, and marry another, she committeth adultery"; for she cannot be joined to another as her own husband, if she leave him who is really her own husband. The law indeed forbade what was plainly adultery; but the Saviour forbids this, which was neither plain, nor known to all, though it was contrary to nature.
In Matthew it is more fully expressed, "Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication." [ Mat 19:9 ] The only carnal cause then is fornication; the only spiritual cause is the fear of God, that a man should put away his wife to enter into religion (ed. note: Husbands and wives have never been allowed to take monastic vows without mutual consent, see Bingham, book 7, ch 3; where also are incidentally given many instances of married persons thus giving up the world.), as we read that many have done. But there is no cause allowed by the law of God for marrying another, during the lifetime of her who is quitted.
, Vict. Ant. e Cat. in Marc.: There is no contrariety in Matthew’s relating that He spoke these words to the Pharisees, though Mark says that they were spoken to the disciples; for it is possible that He may have spoken them to both.
CHAPTER 10
2 Christ disputeth with the Pharisees touching divorcement: 13 blesseth the children that are brought unto him: 17 resolveth a rich man how he may inherit life everlasting: 23 telleth his disciples of the danger of riches: 28 promiseth rewards to them that forsake anything for the gospel: 32 foretelleth his death and resurrection: 35 biddeth the two ambitious suitors to think rather of suffering with him: 46 and restoreth to Bartimæus his sight.
Ver. 21. And Jesus regarding him, with a benignant and pleasant countenance, loved him, showed him marks of His love, taking his hand and smiling upon him, embracing and kissing him.
One thing is wanting unto thee, namely, for the perfection of a holy and evangelical life.
Follow Me. The Greek adds, Taking up thy cross. The Syriac has, Take thy cross, and come after Me.
Ver. 24. Little children (Vulg.); the Syriac, My sons. By His bland address He softens the hardness of the matter. He is like one who loves his children most dearly; and as such He would tell them the truth in sincerity, and persuade them to renounce riches as a bar to salvation.
That trust in riches. For rich men trust in their riches rather than in God, according to the saying in Proverbs (Pro_10:15), "The substance of a rich man is the city of his strength" (Vulg.). With difficulty, therefore, are they saved, because salvation cometh only from God. Wherefore those who wish to be saved must put their trust in God, and must ask and wait for salvation from Him, as the poor do. For inasmuch as they have no riches in which to trust, they are obliged to place all their hopes in God, according to the words (Psa_14:6), "Ye have shamed the counsel of the poor, because the Lord is his hope." Therefore if rich men wish to be saved, let them turn their hope, their heart, their love from riches, and fix them upon God.
Ver. 30. Who shall not receive an hundred times as much, now in this time; houses, and brethren, and sisters, and mothers, and children, and lands, with persecutions: and in the world to come life everlasting. I have explained this hundredfold in S. Mat_19:29. Mark here adds, with persecutions. The Arabic has, in tribulations. "Let him who has relinquished his possessions and friends for the love of Christ, and is set in the midst of persecutions, and is encompassed by them on every side, be faithful. For there will not be wanting a hundred, that is, very many, who will succour and cherish him, as brothers, fathers, and mothers." So Jerome, Bede, &c.
This is added because in persecutions the believer especially needs the help and assistance of others. Also, because this is a rare and marvellous thing, that in persecution, when a man is wont to be left destitute of help and friends, and when all, through fear of danger, withdraw themselves from him, those who follow Christ experience the exact contrary, and find a hundred, i.e., very many to succour them.
Again, with persecutions may be taken thusthat persecutions and tribulations undergone for Christ's sake reward which shall be given, together with the hundredfold, to those who follow Christ. For to suffer for Christ is a great gift of God, as the Apostle teaches (Phi_2:19).
Ver. 32. They were in the way, from Jericho, . . . and Jesus went before them, as with alacrity, affording himself as a guide in the way to the frightened Apostles, who shrank from Jerusalem, because they knew that Jesus was there sought for by the princes to be put to death. Yea, a decree had been made to that effect by their great council, the Sanhedrin (Joh_11:52). Whence it follows
They were astonished, and following, were afraid. Gr. ε̉θαμβου̃ντο, i.e., they were astonished with great fear and dread. The imminent peril of death, says Bede, was the cause of their fear. They were amazed that Christ with so prompt and resolute a mind should bring Himself and His disciples into such open peril of death. They were afraid lest they might suffer and be put to death with Christ.
Ver. 38. Or be baptised with the baptism wherewith I am baptized. Christ calls His Passion a baptism, because He was to be evidently immersed and drowned in it, according to what David says of himself, but much more of Christ (Psa_69:12), "Save me, 0 God; for the waters are come in unto my soul. I sink in deep mire, where there is no standing: I am come into deep waters, where the floods overflow me."
Ver. 42. Ye know that they who seem to rule over the Gentiles lord it over them. Gr. κατακυριεύουσιν αυ̉τω̃ν, i.e, dominate over them, or against them. For who seem, the Gr. is οί δοκου̃ντες, i.e., who please themselves, and rejoice in ruling. For none rule more imperiously and harshly than those who are delighted with ruling and commanding. Whence the Arabic translates, they who think themselves princes of the people are their lords, i.e., they exercise, as it were, a tyrannical domination over them.
Ver. 46. Bartimæus, the son of Timæus. This blind man, then, was called by a proper name, Bartimæus, i.e., the son of Timæus, as Bartholomew is the same as son of Ptolemy. The same was called also by the same name as his father Timæus. Timæus was the name of that Pythagorean philosopher who wrote the life of Pythagoras.
Moreover, Bartimæus is interpreted by Pagnini in three ways (in Nom. Hebraicis). The first is from S. Jerome, to the effect that Bartimæus means the blind son, or the son of blindness. He says that it is a Syriac name, but corrupted from Barsemia, or Barsamæus. Bar is son, semaia, blindness.
The second opinion is, that it means the son of honour; as if compounded of the Syriac bar, a son, and the Gr. τιμή, honour.
The third is, that it means the son of the admirer, or admirable corn, or admirable purity. For this was what the blind man received from Christ. For being illuminated in body, he was far more illuminated in his soul. For bar means meal, or wheat, or purity, as well as son. Tamah is to admire.
And followed Him in the way. Moraliter: Says the Gloss, Let us consider the way in which He goeth, and follow Him by humility and labours. The way is that of which He saith, "I am the way, the truth, and the life." This is "the narrow way," which leads to the heights of Jerusalem and Bethany, to the Mount of Olives, which is the mount of light and consolation; yea, which leads to Zion and the heavenly Jerusalem. The blind man therefore sees and follows, for he who rightly understands the life of Christ ought to follow and imitate it by his works. (Top)
Moses permitted the injured husband to send away his wife, declaring that he had repudiated her. See Deuteronomy xxiv. 1.
Because of the hardness of their hearts, and to prevent the excesses they would otherwise have committed with regard to their wives. (Bible de Vence)
But from the beginning of the world it was not thus; for then God only formed one man and one woman, that they might be exclusively and invariably attached to each other.
Hence it is written, (Genesis ii. 24, and Matthew xix. 5.) A man shall leave father and mother, and adhere to his wife.
1 And he arose from thence, and cometh into the coasts of Judæa by the farther side of Jordan: and the people resort unto him again; and, as he was wont, he taught them again. 2 And the Pharisees came to him, and asked him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife? tempting him. 3 And he answered and said unto them, What did Moses command you? 4 And they said, Moses suffered to write a bill of divorcement, and to put her away. 5 And Jesus answered and said unto them, For the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept. 6 But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. 7 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; 8 And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. 9 What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. 10 And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter. 11 And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. 12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.
Our Lord Jesus was an itinerant Preacher, did not continue long in a place, for the whole land of Canaan was his parish, or diocese, and therefore he would visit every part of it, and give instructions to those in the remotest corners of it. Here we have him in the coasts of Judea, by the further side of Jordan eastward, as we found him, not long since, in the utmost borders westward, near Tyre and Sidon. Thus was his circuit like that of the sun, from whose light and heat nothing is hid. Now here we have him,
I. Resorted to by the people, v. 1 . Wherever he was, they flocked after him in crowds; they came to him again, as they had done when he had formerly been in these parts, and, as he was wont, he taught them again. Note, Preaching was Christ's constant practice; it was what he was used to, and, wherever he came, he did as he was wont. In Matthew it is said, He healed them; here it is said, He taught them: his cures were to confirm his doctrine, and to recommend it, and his doctrine was to explain his cures, and illustrate them. He taught them again. Note, Even those whom Christ hath taught, have need to be taught again. Such is the fulness of the Christian doctrine, that there is still more to be learned; and such our forgetfulness, that we need to be reminded of what we do know.
II. We have him disputed with by the Pharisees, who envied the progress of his spiritual arms, and did all they could to obstruct and oppose it; to divert him, to perplex him, and to prejudice the people against him.
Here is, 1. A question they started concerning divorce ( v. 2 ); Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife? This was a good question, if it had been well put, and with a humble desire to know the mind of God in this matter; but they proposed it, tempting him, seeking an occasion against him, and an opportunity to expose him, which side soever he should take of the question. Ministers must stand upon their guard, lest, under pretence of being advised with, they be ensnared.
2. Christ's reply to them with a question ( v. 3 ); What did Moses command you? This he asked them, to testify his respect to the law of Moses, and to show that he came not to destroy it; and to engage them to a universal impartial respect for Moses's writings and to compare one part of them with another.
3. The fair account they gave of what they found in the law of Moses, expressly concerning divorce, v. 4 . Christ asked, What did Moses command you? They own that Moses only suffered, or permitted, a man to write his wife a bill of divorce, and to put her away, Deut. xxiv. 1 . "If you will do it, you must do it in writing, delivered into her own hand, and so put her away, and never return to her again."
4. The answer that Christ gave to their question, in which he abides by the doctrine he had formerly laid down in this case ( Matt. v. 32 ), That whosoever puts away his wife, except for fornication, causeth her to commit adultery. And to clear this he here shows,
(1.) That the reason why Moses, in his law, permitted divorce, was such, as that they ought not to make use of that permission; for it was only for the hardness of their hearts ( v. 5 ), lest, if they were not permitted to divorce their wives, they should murder them; so that none must put away their wives but such as are willing to own that their hearts were so hard as to need this permission.
(2.) That the account which Moses, in this history, gives of the institution of marriage, affords such a reason against divorce, as amounts to a prohibition of it. So that if the question be, What did Moses command? ( v. 3 ), it must be answered, "Though by a temporary proviso he allowed divorce to the Jews, yet by an eternal reason he forbade it to all the children of Adam and Eve, and that is it which we must abide by."
Moses tells us, [1.] That God made man male and female, one male, and one female; so that Adam could not put away his wife and take another, for there was no other to take, which was an intimation to all his sons, that they must not. [2.] When this male and this female were, by the ordinance of God, joined together in holy marriage, the law was, That a man must leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife ( v. 7 ); which intimates not only the nearness of the relation, but the perpetuity of it; he shall so cleave to his wife as not to be separated from her. [3.] The result of the relation is, That, though they are two, yet they are one, they are one flesh, v. 8 . The union between them is the most intimate that can be, and, as Dr. Hammond expresses it, a sacred thing that must not be violated. [4.] God himself was joined them together; he has not only, as Creator, fitted them to be comforts and helps meet for each other, but he has, in wisdom and goodness, appointed them who are thus joined together, to live together in love till death parts them. Marriage is not an invention of men, but a divine institution, and therefore is to be religiously observed, and the more, because it is a figure of the mystical inseparable union between Christ and his church.
Now from all this he infers, that men ought not to put their wives asunder from them, whom God has put so near them. The bond which God himself has tied, is not to be lightly untied. They who are divorcing their wives for every offence, would do well to consider what would become of them, if God should in like manner deal with them. See Isa. l. 1 ; Jer. iii. 1 .
Sirach's counsel on friendship rests on a single verb in v. 7, which the Douay renders "If thou wouldst get a friend, try him before thou takest him." Haydock renders it literally "dost possess a friend, possess him in trial," as the Greek also has it, while Calmet notes that the Hebrew term kanah also means "to acquire," so the trial belongs before the choice: "It is too late to try him after he has been received." The passage then lays out a gallery of false friends, each with a recognisable face: the friend "for his own occasion" (v. 8), the friend "that turneth to enmity" (v. 9), and the "companion at the table" who will not abide "in the day of distress" (v. 10). Against these stands the faithful friend, "a strong defence" and "a treasure" (v. 14), and finally "the medicine of life and immortality" (v. 16), where Calmet observes that and immortality is not in the Greek.
The commentators in Haydock bring the classical moralists to the table beside Sirach. On "one of a thousand" as counsellor (v. 6), Calmet allows that few can keep a secret, yet holds with Paul that we must have peace with all if we can; Aristotle commends Hesiod's maxim, neither too many intimate friends nor none at all. Plutarch and Solon second the trial of v. 7: choose slowly, and do not cast off with disgrace the friends you have. The friend who will "disclose hatred and strife and reproaches" (v. 9) Calmet glosses as the one who discloses all your imperfections, and Pliny supplies the reason it stings so: "the closest alliances, being broken, produce the most bitter enmities." Cicero's definition of friendship, "a kind and perfect agreement in all divine and human affairs," is quoted through Augustine, and the note adds that "Religion must be the foundation." Calmet adds a caution: Cicero says friendship can subsist only among the virtuous, yet the virtuous, judging others by themselves, are easily deceived, and ought therefore to look to God. Hence v. 16: "they that fear the Lord, shall find him."
The passage rebukes two modern errors at once: friendship measured by number, and friendship taken on trust without testing. It also forbids the cynic's response, since Bias's maxim to "love as if they were to hate" applies, says Haydock, only to friends of the false kind; "entire confidence becomes those who are friends indeed." The last verse gives friendship its direction: "according to him shall his friend be" (v. 17). Haydock reads it as the God-fearing man instilling piety into his friend if he lacks it, and quotes the proverb amicitia similes invenit aut facit: friendship finds equals or makes them.